Contact or respond to new people just as you have been. Those 17 to 23 days of messages are just the first chapter in your story. Do you know if these women are even real? You are not a winsome young lady in some Jane Austen novel where you have to wait for the gentleman to acknowledge you! When we change our circumstances change.
Is that always an automatic 'No' or what?
REVEALED: How long you should wait before meeting your online date
Postponing the First Date Posted: The only thing all of your bad relationships and dating experiences have in common is you. Don't Be Flaky. Same goes for your photo - add it when you're ready, not before. The survey of online daters also found those who meet relatively early are more likely to accept the minor differences between their expectations and reality.